Women over forty need to go under the knife to stop their men cheating: Expert claims surgery is only way to curb wandering eyes

•  Louise Van Der Velde, 41, runs a relationship therapy centre in London 
• She believes women only have themselves to blame if their man cheats 
• She says ladies should get plastic surgery to stay desirable  

Have you ever wondered what you have to do to keep your man's eye from wandering? One woman thinks she has the answer - it involves a scalpel and some silicone. 

Self-titled sex expert Louise Van Der Velde is telling women who reach their forties to get plastic surgery or face their partner running off with a younger model. 

Louise, who runs a relationship therapy centre in central London, believes ladies only have themselves to blame if their husband starts to find other women more attractive.  

Louise Van Der Velde, 41, runs a relationship therapy centre in London, she believes women only have themselves to blame if their man cheats and should get plastic surgery to stay desirable 

She said: 'I think for the people who do want to have a monogamous relationship – the women are very quick to point the finger.

'They say that their husband is messing about and he’s left them for someone else, but I think it is absolutely the woman's responsibility when they have let themselves go over the years.

'We are the creators of our own destiny, if your fella cheats, you’ve created it yourself. 

'The men have a right to look elsewhere, they have a right to be sleeping with an attractive woman.' 

Dear LIB readers; What do I do?

                                         From a female LIB reader

I have been seeing this guy for 9 months and in those 9 months, most of the time we had sex, it was unprotected. In fact I was the one who always insisted that he used protection to avoid any issues. He always claimed to get carried away. I didn’t want to be too pushy on the condom matter because we are both in our 30s and we were looking at something serious. I once teased him saying “what if I got pregnant” and his reply was that there was no better time than now. I was still being careful and tried to take contraceptives to avoid issues. 

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Cheating wives take adultery accusations ‘on the chin’ – divorce lawyers

Cuckolding on the rise as more women go out to work – but they are still more likely than men to own up to adultery, say divorce lawyers

Professional women may be having more affairs but they are also more likely to own up, say divorce lawyers  

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Wives who cheat on their husbands are more likely to own up to infidelity because they are more pragmatic – and less proud – than men, divorce lawyers say.

The steady rise in the numbers of women with full time jobs has led to speculation that secret workplace affairs are likely to be on the increase.